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“山有木兮木有枝，心悦君兮君不知”，想想那高山有草木相伴，大树有枝干缠绕，唯余我喜欢你，而你却不晓得！两千多年前的古人寥寥数语，已经把那种止于唇齿、掩于岁月、含蓄隐忍的爱意刻画的入木三分。歌者酸酸甜甜的思恋之情穿越岁月的长河，千年之后依然能让你我动容，可见暗恋的力量非你我可以想象。
而且，暗恋最美妙之处在于，在暗恋者的心中，对方是何其美好。那种想要接近又不敢接近，想要得到又怕拒绝的复杂感觉，其本质是对美好事物的一种默默追求。所以说暗恋最有品质的地方就是成就最好的自己 ，在不断追逐他（她）的步伐中，持续不断地让自己变得优秀。
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分享一个经典的暗恋故事：“风陵渡口初相遇，一见杨过误终身”，讲的是郭襄的一生，既是神雕一书的终结，也是倚天一书的开始。那个痴情的少女为了一份相思骑着青驴自南而北、从东至西，走遍大半个中原苦苦寻觅神雕大侠。途中奇遇金轮法王学成西域密宗的无上内功，得到少林无色大师所送的罗汉拳，自创多项神功如源自少林的峨眉九阳功、源自与杨过初遇的黑沼灵狐故事的峨眉剑法、源自降龙十八掌的峨眉拳法、以及集毕生所学悟出的绝顶武学四象掌。同时创立了与少林、武当、昆仑、崆峒、华山相抗衡的六大门派之一峨眉派！
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暗恋的力量让一个十六岁的少女一步步成为开宗立派的一代宗师。用品质的观点来分析其实我们也可以学习借鉴，这个绝招就是实现目标的SMART原则:
1.具体的地方（一切神雕大侠可能去的：空山寂寂的绝情谷、终南山的幽居古墓、花落无声的万花坳、凝月冥冥的风陵渡口、武学圣地少林武当等等）
2.可衡量（骑着毛驴亲口询问所遇到的各路高人，打探神雕大侠的行踪）
3.可达成（郭黄之女，八面玲珑，本就身怀绝技，够本领行走江湖）
4.有关联（神雕大侠有情有义、侠肝义胆、武艺高强，所以襄儿也是边走边学，不断提升自己的人格魅力和武学造诣）
5.有时间限定（红颜弹指老、刹那芳华间，二十四年，神雕大侠估计已过耳顺之年）
质量就在我们身边，寻觅多年襄儿最后大彻大悟后开创峨眉，所以说爱慕一个人，最美好的结局不是占有，而是成长为更好的自己。我们每个人其实都有自己心仪的人或物，说明我们都是有目标的。为了实现这个目标，我们也可以运用SMART原则，制定一系列具体的、可以衡量的、可以达成的，有关联的、有时间限定的小目标。一步一个脚印走过，即使得不到朝思暮想的他（她/它），最终也能成就最美好的自己！
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There is an ancient Chinese poem：“There is wood in the mountains, wood grows out the branches, and a heart that pleases you, but you do not know. High mountains are accompanied by vegetation, trees have branches twining. I like you, but you do not know! The love of the singer is sweet and astringent, which goes through the river of years, and after a thousand years, it can still let us moved, thus we can see the power of secret love is not what you and I can imagine.”
What's more, the most wonderful thing about secret love is how beautiful the other person is in the heart of the secret admirer. The feeling of wanting to be close but not being brave enough to get close, and the complex feeling of wanting to get but being afraid of rejection, is essentially a kind of silent pursuit of good things. So, the most quality of secret love is to let us become a better ourselves. In the constant pursuit of his or her pace, we continue to make ourselves better.
I share a classic crush story: Guo Xiang met Yang Guo at the ferry, which delayed her life. This is about the life of Guo Xiang, which is not only the end of the book 《The Return Of The Condor Heroes》, but is also the beginning of the book 《The Heaven Sword and Dragon Saber》. For the lovesickness, that spoony girl riding a donkey through most of the central plains looking for Yang Guo. On her way, she met many top kung fu masters and learned their kung fu all. What's more, she spent her whole life learning to build the top martial arts four elephant palm. At the same time she founded one of the six schools -- the Emei school, which is tied for shaolin, Wudang, Kunlun, Kongtong, Huashan .
The power of a crush makes a 16-year-old girl become the grandmaster who built a faction step by step. In fact, we can also learn from the perspective of quality. This is the SMART principle for achieving goals:
1. Specific places (everywhere Yang Guo may go to: the Jue Qing valley, ancient tombs, Wan Huaao, Feng Ling ferry, Shaolin, Wudang, the holy land of martial arts, etc.)
2.Measurable (Guo Xiang rode a donkey to ask the people she met to find out the whereabouts of Yang Guo).
3.Attainable (as Guo Jing and Huang Rong's daughter, she is exquisite. She is skilled enough to walk the world.)
4. Related(Yang Guo is passionate and righteous, chivalrous and strong in martial arts, so Miss Guo Xiang is learning while walking, constantly improving her personality charm and martial arts attainments)
5. Time-based. (As time goes by, Yang Guo is over 60 years old.)
Quality is around us. Guo Xiang, who has been looking for Yang Guo for many years, finally built Emei school after a thorough understanding. Therefore, to love and admire a person, the best ending is not to possess, but to grow into a better self. In fact, each of us has his or her own favorite person or thing, which means that we all have goals. In order to achieve this goal, we can also use the smart principle to formulate a series of specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-based small goals. Through these experiences, even if you can't marry him (her / it), you can finally achieve your best self!
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